April
20

We all have friends, family, colleagues and neighbors negatively impacted by COVID-19. Don’t we? Some are either sick, recovering, retrenched or struggling to get needed medications and food supplies in the ongoing lockdown, which simply means they need the good old empathy and compassion.

It’s safe to say things have not been easy for everyone. And the more we follow the news, the easier it is to come to the conclusion that the situation will not get back to normal anytime soon.

That doesn’t mean we should all give up. No way. We are not a people who give up. Instead, when things get as tough as they are right now, we double our compassionate efforts to ensure our individual and collective well being. Beyond keeping to the life-saving social distancing and personal hygiene guidelines from the authorities, we increase our love and care for people around us.

A phone call to check up on them. Prayer for their safety and good health. Words of encouragement and support sent through SMS, email or on their social media pages. The list goes on.

As life is threatened and love is challenged, we are reminded of the powerful words of late New York Times bestselling author and sociology professor, Leo Buscaglia: “Life is our greatest possession and love its greatest affirmation.”

Isn’t that so true? Our love affirms that we truly value life – ours and others’.

Buscaglia was right to posit that we should all live for something, especially “creating joy for others, sharing what we have for the betterment of personkind, bringing hope to the lost and love to the lonely.”

Agreed.

Perhaps, in this pandemic, no segment of the population is more susceptible to loneliness and hopelessness than our seniors. And as a society, we can’t afford to leave them to such. We have to act, and act fast in demonstration of our love for them.

That is why the Dearborn Police Department, the Wayne County Sheriff’s Department, the Inkster Police Department and the Qazi Foundation all deserve commendation for actively supporting our recent distribution of more than 550 large boxes of food items valued at more than $40, 000 to senior citizens in Dearborn and Inkster. Neither cold weather nor the palpable frenzy in the community could deter them from collaborating with us. And the news media, especially Fox 2 News Detroit and Channel 7 Detroit, also played their part in helping people find joy and inspiration in such collaborative outreach to our seniors.

But there are more seniors in need. From cities like Roseville, Highland Park and Detroit where we have been distributing food items for a long time, to Redford, Garden City and Westland, there are countless seniors hoping for front porch delivery of food boxes that could ease their food-related anxiety and concerns. No day passes without us getting more requests and recommendations for food deliveries to seniors, and we won’t allow the thought of our obvious inability to help ALL seniors-in-need hinder or slow us down. Grateful that many in Michigan see us as the go-to nonprofit for seniors and others in dire need, we will continue to expand our partnerships and collaborations to ensure we quickly help as many as possible and in a way that preserves their dignity.

And while a number of organizations are firing or furloughing their staff because of the pandemic, we are actually maintaining existing staff and hiring new ones. Just last week, we hired 27 staff to perform different functions in our faithful task of providing hope and help to the homeless, hungry and hurting in our community. We have also opened new sites to meet the life-saving needs of the moment. Yes, we now have additional residential sites to help fight the pandemic!

We actually are on the frontlines of the fight. Like doctors, nurses and others in the healthcare sector, we in human services are also exposed 24/7 to the risks associated with the pandemic. All our residential sites operate round the clock, providing essential wrap-around services to women and children, seniors, veterans, teen moms, returning citizens, substance use disorder patients, and victims of domestic abuse who need to gain stability, sobriety, second chances and self-sustenance.

So, as we sincerely and respectfully thank you for your continued prayers, words of encouragement and financial support, we humbly ask you to join us in commending our drivers, janitors, chefs, case managers, counselors, residence specialists, program supervisors and directors, and other very important members of the 300-plus Detroit Rescue Mission positive action team who risk so much to ensure that the “least of these” around us get the hand-up they need today and beyond.

March
30

In many ways, we are in uncharted territory. Even the foremost experts in infectious disease control and prevention can’t tell us where the COVID-19 pandemic is heading, and when it will cease to plague our communities. Many cities, including those in metro Detroit, are on necessary lock-down. And the longer the lock-down, the more it becomes obvious that life as we know it – especially in terms of convenience, comfort, predictability and social bonding – has changed forever. As far as I know, anxiety, fear and panic have not been this high in recent history.

And every day, we face the immeasurable pain of losing friends, partners, neighbors and loved ones. Just like that. You talk with them today on the phone and tomorrow you hear they are gone, leaving behind vacuums that are too big to fill. That’s so sad.

I don’t remember the last time I had a good sleep in the last four weeks. Why should I? There are over 2200 disadvantaged persons relying on us each day for services ranging from hot meals and emergency shelter to child tutoring and substance abuse detox and treatment. They are more vulnerable in a crisis time like this, and we have to make sure their health and well-being are protected and promoted, following relevant guidelines from the Centers for Disease Control (CDC) and state and city officials.

Thus, apart from pre-entry testing for COVID-19 symptoms like fever, promotion of frequent hand-washing, and cessation of serving food in common areas, we have significantly increased the number of times we sanitize common areas like bathrooms, dorms, hallways, libraries, TV lounge, chapels and dining room.

Besides, the required social distancing (like clients staying 6-feet from each other) has created a situation where each of our locations can only serve about a third of its normal capacity. So, new facilities that meet the intricate needs of the moment have become necessary. Thankfully, we have opened two such facilities with the help of the City of Detroit, and are currently in talks with the relevant Wayne County agency to open another one for clients undergoing treatment.

Obviously, all that requires more resources – food, personal protective equipment (PPE), sanitary items, etc. Our staff of about 300 – and some of them have pre-existing conditions that limit their involvement in the COVID-19 response – are already stretched too thin. Overtime pay is now high, and skill-based group volunteers are no longer an option.

Too many challenges, But we are not giving up. And we are not slowing down either.

A major reason is this: we’ve got friends, faithful friends. Or as superstars, Lennon and Maisy, sang, “I’ve got you, and you’ve got me.” We’ve got metro Detroit and metro Detroit’s got us. 

We continue to receive lots of calls, text messages and emails from individuals and organizations offering one form of help or another. Chefs. Foundation executives. Business leaders. Community advocates. Young influencers. Retirees. Media and sports personalities. They all solidarize with our intense efforts to make sure homeless, hungry and hurting individuals and families get as much support and upliftment as possible. That has been so encouraging – to put it mildly. And we are indeed grateful.

Recall that the Detroit community also gave us a similar level of financial and moral support after 9/11 and during the Great Recession, enabling us to give much-needed help and hope to those who needed them most.

And as we exercise the hope that this devastating COVID-19 pandemic ends in no distant time, we are not oblivious of how the resultant negative economic impact could precipitate a big rise in the number of people and families in need of shelter, food, clothes and shoes, substance abuse treatment and job readiness programs. We are already looking ahead and re-positioning ourselves to meet those needs, with the help of our faithful friends.

Hopefully, I will get the opportunity to share our plans with you in the coming weeks.

Till then, thank you so much, and please keep safe and keep well. Let’s overcome COVID-19 together.

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March
10

I am yet to come across an individual or organization that would rather have people think the worst of them. We all want people to think of us as good, smart, efficient, effective and reliable – just as we think of ourselves. Don’t we? But people are not bound to see us the way we see ourselves. You may see yourself as the best in your field while others choose to see you as pretending to be so. And convincing them otherwise is not always easy. You may even turn them off if you become pushy about it.

You and I know that many don’t respond favorably to self-praise. They frown at it – and I don’t blame them. Who likes to hang around someone that always talks about themselves and their personal achievements? No matter how much you respect the person, you can get turned off by their self-indulgence.

That’s why the book of wisdom offers a very suitable advice in Proverbs 27: 2: “Let someone else praise you, and not your own mouth; an outsider, and not your own lips.

Let a former professor of yours, an existing client, a former employer or former business partner say how good and dependable you are. Let your donors say how happy they are that their generous dollars are making a difference in the community. They actually sound more credible.

If like me, you lead a direct service nonprofit that touches and transforms lives, you will be all about producing positive results, and you will be ready at all times to discuss relevant facts and figures about your operational processes, outcomes and impact.

Why not? Doing so helps you get your train running strong and on time. Donors, be they individuals, families, government agencies, businesses and foundations, often donate on the clear understanding that you are delivering tangible results and making a difference. And there’s nothing wrong with that.

But it is important not to appear cheesy or charlatan-like while discussing one’s achievements.

Recruiters will readily advise that instead of indulging in vague self-praise (on one’s resume), one should show results using easy-to-understand numbers. Sure. Let the numbers speak for you. And to nonprofits, I often say let your info-graphics do most of the talking, especially if they contain data from top rated third parties.

It’s the same reason that accountants strive to get CPA status and physicians go to great lengths to become board certified. The third party validations make them look more dependable and competitive in the marketplace of solutions.

At Detroit Rescue Mission, for instance, we work hard to meet the tough requirements for maintaining our accreditation by the Commission on Accreditation of Rehabilitation Facilities (CARF), Evangelical Council for Financial Accountability (ECFA), and Better Business Bureau, among others, because many in our target audiences assess our efficacy and reliability through the lens of such validation.

And just last week, we received yet another 4-star rating, the “highest possible rating” by America’s leading charity evaluation organization, the Charity Navigator. “Only 32% of the charities we evaluate have received at least 2 consecutive 4-star evaluations, indicating that Detroit Rescue Mission Ministries outperforms most other charities in America,” noted Charity Navigator in a letter conveying the good news.

So, instead of telling people how good we are – and probably sounding like we are just bragging – we simply tell them we have the highest rating by Charity Navigator, and are accredited by the well-regarded organizations mentioned above. We tell them our clients, donors, neighbors, external auditors and evaluation agencies are saying we are good. We tell them our very experienced leaders are invited to sit on important boards and committees at the local, state and federal levels.

And if you ask me, I’d say the notable Michigan philanthropist who recently donated three big buildings – one in Livonia, and two in Detroit – to us must have taken such good reputation into consideration. I’d also say the same thing about the wonderful men and women who see us in the local news and write or call to make much-appreciated donations in support of our work.

March
2

Randolph was hungry when he came through the Mission doors. We sat with him while he ate a good hot $1.95 meal, provided by a caring donor like you, and listened as he told us about the poor decisions and good-time friends who’d put him on the wrong path in life.

He says, “I picked up my first drink when I was 19 years old, and it grew from there. It was peer pressure. I was hanging out with the wrong crowd, and I knew it was getting out of hand.”

Later, as an honorably discharged veteran, Randolph wanted to pursue his goals, but addiction derailed his hopes and dreams. “I separated myself from my family because of guilt and embarrassment,” he says. “I slept in the park—under the bridge, behind buildings—and ate out of garbage cans. It was degrading to wonder where you’re going to get your next meal.”

That’s when we told Randolph that new beginnings happen at DRMM every day—even to him!

“DRMM welcomed me with open arms,” Randolph says. “They showed me love, and they showed me tough love, too. They point you in the right direction and help you with skills, trades, jobs, and education. They have Bible study, church, a choir, and they’ve helped me grow spiritually. They helped me talk with my family—who forgave me with open arms.

“The Mission is all about love, faith, and spiritual guidance. They give me inspiration and keep me focused.”

Randolph has heartfelt words of thanks to caring friends and donors who’ve helped him to get a fresh start in life. He says, “I appreciate your love and all that you contribute. Don’t stop donating because there are people here who need you, people who don’t have anybody to love them but the Mission.”

This is a crazy time in our city, with so many hurting and in desperate need of help. On behalf of Randolph and so many other men and women in your community who urgently need meals, help, and hope to rebuild a broken life, please make a generous gift now!

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“I slept in the park—under the bridge, behind buildings—and ate out of garbage cans. It was degrading to wonder where you’re going to get your next meal.”

March
2

Harry will never forget how low he felt the day he first came through DRMM’s doors.

“I was down on my luck and walking the streets,” he says.

Over a hot meal, Harry discovered all the emergency services made available to him because of your compassion—food, shelter, and clothes. But more importantly, he learned that if he was ready to permanently change his life, DRMM would help him overcome addiction, homelessness, joblessness, and despair.

With tears in his eyes, Harry said he wanted to transform his life more than he’d ever wanted anything before.

So he did the hard work . . . and the generosity of caring friends like you helped give him the lifesaving, life-changing help he so urgently needed.

“The Mission provided me a safe haven—a roof over my head—and gave me direction to get back on my feet. Since I’ve been with DRMM, I’ve beat addiction, been to school, and learned a trade. I am grateful for DRMM.”

Today, you can find Harry at the Mission reaching out to other people who are lost and broken!

“I have no idea where I’d be if not for the Mission. DRMM saved me,” he says. “They helped me and gave me opportunities. I’m showing my gratitude by helping others the same way they helped me. I’m paying it forward.”

Saved and changed lives like Harry’s start with the simple kindness of a good meal provided by a friend like you. And the reality is that right now more neighbors than ever are in need of help in Detroit. The coronavirus pandemic has left many who were already on the brink without shelter, safety, food, and hope. Please make a generous gift now to help neighbors who are in desperate need during this crisis!

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“I have no idea where I’d be if not for the Mission. DRMM saved me. They helped me and gave me opportunities. I’m showing my gratitude by helping others the same way they helped me. I’m paying it forward.” —Harry, a grateful neighbor

February
19

Christopher’s new beginning started with the simple kindness of a good meal.

Christopher is a young man who first came through the Mission doors hungry and hoping for a meal . . . but he needed so much more.

Over a $1.95 meal provided by a friend like you, Christopher shared how his parents lost custody of him and his siblings when he was just 14 years old. He grew up in a “boys’ home” that met his physical needs, but not much else . . .

By the time we met him, Christopher had called our city streets home for years. He slept in cars and abandoned houses in all kinds of weather. As you can imagine, it’s hard to keep a job when you have no home . . . and it’s almost impossible to rent a place to call home when you don’t have a job!

He was just trapped. No job. No home. No hope.

I wish I could tell you that his circumstances are rare, but it’s just not true. In fact, the need in our city right now—the hunger and suffering—is vast and growing. That’s why I am so thankful for caring friends who support DRMM and provide meals to people who are hungry and hurting.

Christopher’s new beginning started with one of those meals . . .

You see, that’s when we sat and prayed with, and for, Christopher. That’s when we told him all about Christ’s promise of new life, which He bought for us on the cross. That’s when we explained that God’s mercy and love is always there for him and that DRMM exists to help people find their fresh starts in life.

This message was a game-changer for Christopher, and it will have just as great an impact on other lost and broken souls who will come through the Mission doors for a meal this Easter!

Did you know that throughout the Easter season, as many as 85,000 hot meals will be shared with men, women, and children who are in desperate need of being restored, forgiven, and beginning again?

This is why I ask you to give generously today, from your heart, to provide as many life-changing $1.95 meals as you can. Yes, a meal can truly be life-changing . . .

Here’s how. Christopher had lived his entire life believing NO ONE cared if he lived or died. So, you can imagine how moved he was to discover that the meal he received was provided by a neighbor like you who really DOES care.

On behalf of others in your community who are hungry, hurting, and homeless, please make a generous gift now to provide as many meals as possible this Easter season!

Give meals now!