December
8

The year 2015 is over. Ok, I get it, your mind is telling you there are still three weeks left to tidy up loose ends. Maybe, you are thinking of working harder to complete one or two small projects in your organization. Maybe, you want to take advantage of the discounts brick and mortar and online stores are offering these days. Or maybe, you don’t want to miss the last minute opportunity to donate generously to nonprofits around you that are actually touching and transforming lives.

That’s all fine and good. But, please, in all you do in what is left of 2015, do not forget to take proper stock of the receding year – and truthfully score yourself (A, B or C). Also, make it an utmost priority to take clear-sighted aim at the incoming one. Philosopher and theologian Søren Aabye Kierkegaard put it nicely thus: “Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards.” And that’s true.

Looking back at the three hundred and something days that have passed, what would you say are the most remarkable accomplishments you made? Will they matter to people in your community three to five years from now? Are the accomplishments all about you or have they really lifted up others (especially the less fortunate)? Your stock taking will help you find the right answers – which will in turn help you zero in on your 2016 goals.

There is a good reason many employers look at past performance when making important hiring decisions. Past performance tells them the candidate can produce results in the future. Though there is no guarantee the candidate would, it helps to predicate a view of the future on an understanding of the past. If you like, call it the asparagus mentality (because you plant asparagus once and it brings you yearly fruit for up to 20 years or more) but people should always be judged by their actions. Or as the good book rightly says, you shall know them by their fruits. Yes! Your good fruits tell the best story of your efforts in 2015. 

So, is it wise for able-bodied and liberty-enjoying individuals who cannot lay their fingers on two or three enduring achievements they made in 2015 to spend many hours on self-gifting holiday shopping? Don’t get me wrong, they shouldn’t go on hunger strike or turn themselves into hermits just because they didn’t perform well, but they shouldn’t “high-five” themselves either. They should take stock, and take aim – like the achievers. 

Since you’ve read up to this point, let me assume you made three or more palpable achievements in 2015. Commendations for that. Let me also assume that you don’t want to decline or depreciate. Rather, you want to go up; you want to record more achievements in 2016. But big and enduring accomplishments are hardly impromptu. They don’t just happen in a vacuum or fall like snow in winter. They happen because people strongly desire, carefully plan and painstakingly work toward them. 

What do you want to accomplish starting January 1 2016? What are your goals? I suggest you write them down. There is no need creating a fanciful and long-winded list. Three to five goals will do. Make sure they are not fuzzy dreams. Make sure they will lift you and others up. Make sure you start working on them now. 

Meanwhile, best of the holiday season to you. If you live in metro Detroit, feel free to join us in lifting people up at our free admission Christmas party happening at 3606 East Forest Street Detroit from 11am to 2pm on Friday December 11. Merry Christmas!

November
4

One thing common to you and I is that we are not without sin. Another thing is that we’ve made a big mistake or two in our lives.

Guess who else shares in our sinning and making mistakes. Of course, our neighbors, relatives and friends who have served time in public and private prisons across our great country.

So Painful

My line of work has enabled me to see firsthand how male and female ex-offenders struggle excruciatingly to secure stable jobs and decent housing as well as reunite with their loved ones and reintegrate with the larger society. They face discrimination everywhere – from housing and employment to even congregational worship.

Surprised? Well…some places of worship discriminate against them too – despite their salient sermons about serving the God of first, second and third chances.

At different times and places in life, many of us become victims of (violent or nonviolent) crimes. Many of us live with horrors of violence meted against us and our friends and loved ones. So, it is understandable that many would like to see criminals suffer their penalties for life – in or out of prison.

But while the bible clearly supports punishing offenders, it also has provisions for reprieve, restoration and rehabilitation of repentant offenders.

Society suffers too

Besides, available evidence shows that society also suffers when criminals are made to suffer for life. When employers reject and abandon them, we all – as a society – lose the benefits of their talents and skills. We also lose the benefits that come from their consumption (spending on the goods and services they need and want). After all, consumer spending accounts for about 70 per cent of America’s economic activity.

Employed ex-offenders patronize businesses, from mom and pop coffee shops, restaurants and collision shops to fashion shops, theaters and utility providers. They also pay income and sales tax, among others. In effect, they contribute in stimulating the American economy.

In my 18 years of service at Detroit Rescue Mission Ministries (https://drmm.org), I have seen ex-offenders that are truly smart and resourceful; ex-offenders that have become powerful change agents right here in metro Detroit.

The example of Charles

A major highlight of our October 30 Call to Service – Call to Hope event at our banquet hall in midtown Detroit was hearing Charles Knuckles tell his success story. An ex-offender, Charles gained full employment at one of our facilities upon successfully completing our Prisoner Re-entry Program.

Charles calls himself a “miracle,” and he is indeed a miracle. I am happy he is joining the ranks of a number of our frontline staff members who have not allowed their past to hold them hostage for life.

YouTube is awash with videos showing talented musicians, sculptors, chefs, fitness instructors and community advocates who had paid for their crimes in prison. They are now doing positive things in the community to prove that being an ex-offender is not synonymous with laziness or stupidity.

Ex-offenders are not sub-human. And they desire good things (including dignity of labor) for themselves and their loved ones – just as the rest of us.

It’s true that some entrepreneurial ex-offenders have scaled the hurdles and become employers of labor, but many ex-offenders are not and will not become entrepreneurs. Even among non-felons, the number of those seeking or providing paid labor far exceeds that of employers.

Over to you

Imagine then what would happen if government gives tax incentives to organizations that empower and employ ex-offenders. Everyone wins!

So, join me in calling on federal, state and local governments to join hands with small and big employers to erase the tiny job application form box that closes the door against ex-offenders who really want to work.

Know how to encourage employers near you to join the Erase The Box movement? Please, share in the comment section below. Thank you!

November
3

Spotlight on a few of DRMM’s program graduates
With the same grace each of us has been given through Jesus, DRMM is committed to rebuilding the lives of Detroit’s lost and broken men and women.

That’s why we offer programs to individuals who are ready to make permanent changes in their lives—so they can rejoin society as healthy, independent, and productive members. Our programs are intensive and address every facet of the body and soul. Celebrate with us these recent graduates who came to us wanting to rebuild their lives, and worked hard to achieve positive change.

Thomas
“I want to thank everyone who gives to DRMM. Your gifts to this Mission are well spent, they have a lot of great programs. When I came to DRMM I was having some financial difficulty and I had just gotten out of the hospital. I was driving around with all of my possessions in the trunk of my car and had no place to go. I was at DRMM about a year, and now I have an apartment and am living independently. Christmas at DRMM is great, very festive. A lot of volunteers come and share their talents and resources. In fact, last Christmas at DRMM was the best Christmas I’d had in quite a while.”

Lee
“I would like to thank DRMM and all the donors . . . without you I don’t know where I would be. I was so lost. I had a bad drug problem, and the Mission showed me how to deal with it, helped me understand why I started with them, how to get clean—and I’ve been clean almost two years. Today, I am doing great. I’m saving money, taking care of my business, and soon I’m going back to school to get an education.”

David
“I owe DRMM and all of their staff a debt of gratitude. They helped me in more ways than I can express. I was experiencing a problem with drugs, and they took me in and got me out of a bad atmosphere and helped me get a new outlook. I am currently working and going to school in the evenings. I’m studying social work because I am so impressed by the counseling services I received at DRMM; they were excellent. I want to be a drug counsellor so I can give back to people in the same manner I was helped. I want to thank the people who support DRMM, because what they are doing here to help people is wonderful. If someone wants to change their life and takes advantage of the programs offered here, the sky is the limit. DRMM was a wonderful experience for me.”

Help make a difference in lives likes these — donate now.

November
3

Christmas could be just another cold and hungry day for a great many families in our community.

That’s why DRMM is calling on faithful friends and supporters to adopt a struggling family and make this a Christmas they will never forget.

Each of the gift items below will make a huge difference in the lives of boys and girls, families and individuals who need to know someone cares. Thank you for giving generously to make Christmas merry for people who are in need.

You can adopt a family in need this Christmas, by simply contacting Kisha Woods at kwoods@drmm.org or at 313-993-4700 ext 3930 by December 1, 2015.

Merry Christmas Gifts FOR A BOY:

  • 1 outfit—jeans/pants, shirt, underwear, socks, shoes, winter coat, hat, scarf, and gloves.
  • Toothbrush and toothpaste.
  • One or two toys.
  • Please also include one book.

Merry Christmas Gifts FOR A GIRL:

  • 1 outfit—jeans/skirt, sweater, underwear, socks, shoes, winter coat, hat, scarf, and gloves.
  • Toothbrush and toothpaste.
  • One or two toys.
  • Please also include one book.

Merry Christmas Gifts FOR A NEW BABY:

  • 1 warm winter outfit, coat, and hat.
  • Diapers, baby wipes.
  • One or two toys.

Merry Christmas Gifts FOR A WOMAN:

  • Winter clothes, hat, scarf, gloves, socks, and shoes.
  • Personal hygiene items.
  • A book or Bible.

Merry Christmas Gifts FOR A MAN:

  • Winter clothes, hat, scarf, gloves, socks, and shoes.

November
3

At 83 years of age, Lois would tell you that she envisioned her “golden” years as somewhat different than they are now. For starters, she would never have guessed she would rely on a food bank for many of the meals she needs to survive.

She’s not alone. On any given day, hundreds of men, women, and entire families will turn to DRMM’s Lighthouse Food Bank for help putting food on the table.

Many of them are working poor, which means they bring home just enough income to keep a roof over their head, but little is leftover to spend on groceries. But thanks to gifts from friends like you, our Lighthouse Food Bank can be counted on to provide each struggling family, and individuals like Lois, with a box of much needed food—as long as supplies don’t run out!

“There are a lot of people who need help, a lot of people going hungry,” Lois says. “Sometimes I feel ashamed and poor, but the people here treat me nice. They give me canned goods, juice, cereal, bread, vegetables, and sometimes cheese and apples . . . whatever they have to give.”

Just $4.16 provides a box of groceries for someone, like Lois, who is hungry and struggling to make ends meet. Please give generously now to ensure everyone who is hungry and hurting gets the help they need this Christmas and in the bitter winter days ahead!

November
3

“We’d been homeless off and on for four or five years. We went from the homes of family members to the houses of friends,” Sharon says. “I remember times when I didn’t have any money and my son was hungry. I didn’t know how I was going to feed or clothe him.

“My son would cry and ask me, ‘Mama, are things going to get better?’

“At one point we were staying at a house where the only utility they had was water. I didn’t want my son living like that. So finally I just broke down and said I’ll go to a shelter and see if I can get on my feet, establish some housing, and get a good job.”

DRMM—a place of safe refuge, warmth, and love
Sharon and her son, Christopher, found their way to Detroit Rescue Mission Ministries (DRMM), one of the few places in the Detroit area able to accept homeless women with children. It was not easy for Sharon to walk through our doors and ask for help, but out of love for her son, she did it.

The welcome she and Christopher received astonished her.

With kindness and compassion, our staff listened to Sharon’s struggles . . . and her hopes and dreams. In no time, the little family was set up in a nice, clean room of their own in our women and children’s center.

A Christmas celebration like no other
But with Christmas fast approaching, Sharon felt anxiety build within her.

Living in a shelter, with no job and no money, how could she make Christmas special for her little boy?

Sharon couldn’t have known how friends like you go the extra mile to make the holidays special for people who are lost, broken, and struggling to rebuild their lives. But she knows now!

“I didn’t think my son was going to have much of a Christmas, but it was amazing,” she recalls. “There were donated toys for the kids and the adults got beautiful baskets filled with towels and toiletries. There were parties. We really enjoyed being here at Christmas.”

The recipe for a fresh start in life
DRMM staff put Sharon on a fast track to build her confidence, skill set, and ultimately a secure and independent life for her and her son. In just 10 months, Sharon had secured a job and a home she and Christopher could call their own!

With tears in her eyes, Sharon expressed her gratitude for the generosity and compassion of DRMM’s staff and supporters like you, “Thank you so much. We were able to get shelter, and I got the help I needed to set and accomplish my goals. This place has been a blessing to me and I plan to come back and be a blessing to others, too.”

On behalf of homeless women and children, like Sharon and Christopher, please share a special gift today so others can experience the love and mercy of Christ this Christmas.