February
29

Thirteen-year-old Caleb White has a heart for the homeless

Caleb was just 6 years old when he saw a miserable and bedraggled man huddling against the bitter cold of our city streets. Instantly, he knew he had to do something to help.

Since that day seven years ago, Caleb has partnered with DRMM to personally improve the lives of people who are struggling with homelessness and other challenges. With help from family, friends, classmates, and others, he has distributed care packages full of toiletries and other essentials, and raised money for school backpacks and coats for needy children and adults.

Most recently Caleb launched a monthly game night which he hosts at DRMM’s Genesis House II, a DRMM residence for homeless women and children that provides employment and education services to help families get back on their feet. Through this pizza, soda pop, and board game outreach, Caleb and his cohorts share simple human kindnesses with boys and girls who need some fun in their lives . . . and need to know someone cares.

Game night is important to the kids, says Kisha Woods-Mathis, Director of Genesis House II. “They’ve been through so much. They’ve been hurt. Some have been evicted. Some have dealt with domestic violence,” she says.

For Caleb, his mission is clear: He wants to continue to help those in need and inspire others to do the same. “I just think that I can set an example for other people, so when I’m doing this they can see it and go out in their community and it can spread,” he says. “Everybody just assumes, ‘Oh, they’re homeless because they made bad choices.’ It’s not that way for everyone. A lot of people have stories that are really, really sad.”

Special thanks to Caleb, his family, and friends who do so much to ease the suffering of those in our community who are in need through their outreach, prayers, and ongoing financial support of DRMM!

February
29

Just a teenager, Ariel was a new mother with no one and no place to turn for help.

When Ariel came through the doors here at Detroit Rescue Mission Ministries (DRMM), she had just one thing on her mind—the precious little boy in her arms, Jeremiah.

She desperately wanted to leave behind the bad choices she had made—dropping out of high school, drug use, and running wild in the streets. “My baby deserves better than that,” Ariel says.

Most shelters in Greater Detroit are unable to accept women and children, but thanks to support from caring friends and supporters, DRMM is able to provide emergency and longer term care for women like Ariel. So we welcomed this young mother and gave her a safe, warm home where she could begin to rebuild her broken life and prepare herself to raise her son to be everything God intends for Him.

Ariel’s new home came with lots of rules and regular chores, but our staff explained to her that she needed to learn how to care for a baby, a household, her finances, and more, in order to live successfully on her own.

“I’ve learned a lot,” says Ariel. “They’ve taught me discipline, time management, how to be responsible, and they’ve taught me about parenting. Soon I will graduate from high school and begin to live independently.”

Ariel will be the first to tell you that her time at DRMM has been life-changing and possibly even lifesaving. “I want to thank everyone who donates to the Mission,” she says. “I don’t know where I would be without DRMM.

“The staff are so supportive and there for me when I need them,” Ariel says. “We are like a family here and they make me want to be a better person, to finish school, and to be a better parent.”

This happy ending for Ariel and Jeremiah is exactly the outcome DRMM staff pray for each day, and it is the reason behind the Mission’s commitment to helping women and their children who are homeless and in need. With ongoing support from caring friends and donors, other frightened mothers will receive the help they need to get a new beginning in life. On behalf of Ariel, Jeremiah, and so many others, thank you for your prayers and partnership!

January
21

It was just yesterday that I read the heart-warming story of Svante Myrick, the 28-year-old mayor of Ithaca New York.

Being mayor of a mid-sized American city like Ithaca – which is home to Ivy League Cornell University – is no paltry feat. He’s the city’s youngest and first African American mayor since its naming in 1804. But what made his story particularly appealing to me was the fact that this notable achiever used to be homeless.

Myrick was born into lack and misery, and while growing up in New York, poverty kept him company. As a recent upworthy.com profile on him revealed, “After he was born, his mother came home from the hospital to find a red eviction notice tacked to the door. The family slipped in and out of homelessness, living in shelters and spending a few nights sleeping in the car.”

They had to make do with food stamps from the government and free food, shelter and other services from nonprofit organizations like mine.

The future must have looked so bleak for Myrick. Understanding human nature, it is not hard to imagine how some callous individuals must have mocked and maltreated his family. Sadly, some humans tend to cast every poor family in the descriptive dungeon of indolence and ignorance.

But Myrick’s single mother was hard working. She worked a number of jobs to raise her four kids. And the harder she worked, the harder it was for her to make ends meet. Given the living conditions of the family then, it is safe to say there was nothing to suggest Myrick would one day be an alumnus of Cornell University and mayor of Ithaca.

Look at him now – a resplendent reference point in personal transformation. I won’t be surprised if he occupies an elective position in Washington DC in the near future.

His current and future success is traceable to an early realization that change doesn’t grow effortlessly like weeds. He must have realized he had to take his future by storm. What informed my conclusion? He set his eyes on Cornell University and worked four jobs to fund his education there. In my dictionary, that’s called DETERMINATION.

Determination is gender, race, creed, height, weight and social status neutral. Anybody anywhere can be as determined as Myrick – and his is the kind of determination that propels positive action. Positive action is like a good seed planted on the good soil of determination.

So, this year, make sure you always wear your determination hat and never forget that determination without meaningful effort is empty.
Jesse Owens put it best thus, “We all have dreams. But in order to make dreams come into reality, it takes an awful lot of determination, dedication, self-discipline, and effort.”

I agree. Do you? Let’s go. 

December
30

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December
17

**Originally Posted on: The Detroit News

Detroit Rescue Mission Ministries has offered a permanent residence for a homeless couple who turned their four young children over to Child Protective Services because it was too cold outside to sleep in the car.

Scores of readers and organizations stepped forward to help after The Detroit News and PBS NewsHour last week told the family’s story as part of a joint report on how emotional trauma is contributing to an asthma epidemic among children in the Motor City and nationwide.

Malik, 9, suffers from severe asthma and has endured numerous hardships during a year-long odyssey of homelessness. His parents, Dwayne Cole and Siretha Lattimore, surrendered Malik to foster care Oct. 26, along with his siblings Jaretha Cole, 11; Shamika Cole, 7; and 4-year-old Jaden, who has autism.

The home will be move-in ready by the end of the week, said Chad Audi, president of the Detroit Rescue Mission Ministries.

“The house will be totally new, totally furnished and stocked with food,” Audi said Monday. “Our hope is that we will get all the family together before Christmas, and we will be sure that they have all the ingredients so they can have a nice Christmas dinner in their own house.”

Audi contacted Third Circuit Court Referee Mona Youssef on Monday to ask if a hearing could be held in time to return custody to the parents before Christmas. He also offered to outline his plans in court.

At a hearing last week, Youssef ordered “liberal and unsupervised” visitation for the four children with the parents, including overnight visitation when housing is secured.

Lattimore said Monday she is “overwhelmed and excited” by the generosity. “I appreciate it,” she said.

The Detroit Rescue Mission will provide the home rent-free for two years and pay for any home repairs, leaving only the utilities for the family to pay. The mission will provide financial and home-owner education, tutoring and summer camp for the children, and will help the parents complete their high school equivalency degrees.

After two years, the family could participate in the Mission’s Neighborhood Rescue Program, which so far has helped 35 formerly homeless families become homeowners. The program allows working families with children, or veterans, to ease into home ownership by paying only for utilities, taxes and home repairs for two years — after which they can choose to purchase the home for $1.

kbouffard@detroitnews.com

December
11

**Originally posted on: Detroit Free Press

Some people look at homeless people and question their life choices. When Caleb White sees them, he only wants to help.

And that’s what this 13-year-old Commerce Township teen has done since he was 6 years old and first hit with the reality that some people live on the streets.

Caleb’s philanthropic efforts — which rely on the help of friends, family, classmates and others — have evolved since then. He went from handing out a few Christmas packages full of toiletries, food and winter weather accessories to handing out hundreds. He has been involved in big efforts to raise money and provide backpacks and coats to needy children and adults. He just launched a fund-raising effort to provide welcome baskets to homeless women transitioning to permanent housing. And earlier this year he created his own foundation to coordinate his activities.

But a monthly game night he hosts at Genesis House II, a Detroit residence for homeless women and children, has added a different twist to his mission. It’s not about volunteering, raising money or providing essential items. It’s about pizza and pop, Monopoly and Operation, and having fun.

“It’s just a great night for us and for them,” said Caleb, an eighth-grader at Clifford Smart Middle School in Commerce Township. He was honored this year as one of the top 10 youth volunteers in the nation through the Prudential Spirit of Community Awards program.

“I love it,” said Kisha Woods-Mathis, director of the Detroit Rescue Mission Ministry’s Genesis House II, which provides transitional housing and employment and educational services to women and children. “The kids love him.”

They also love game night. Jade Diaz’s favorite part? “The pizza,” the 13-year-old said.

For her sister Sapphire Diaz, 11, the best part is the funny people who come to eat and play games with them. Every time, there are new faces, she said.

“We have good memories, good times,” Sapphire said.

The two were chowing down on pizza, talking about their favorite games. Apples to Apples 2 is a big draw, they said. So is Monopoly.

“It’s like Life, but fast,” Sapphire said of Monopoly.

For the kids, game night is important, Woods-Mathis said.

“They’ve been through so much. They’ve been through hurt. Some have been evicted. Some have dealt with domestic violence.”

And Caleb? She said she’s awed to see someone so young have such drive to help others.

“Caleb doesn’t come in here like he’s somebody different. He does everything with the kids. And they love it.”

Caleb’s mother, Melissa Kennedy,  describes her son as one of those kids who gets an idea and has the fire to get it done.

“He sees a need, and he just follows up,” Kennedy said.

His mission began on a frigid day when he was 6. He and his family were in Detroit for a circus and while driving around, he spotted a man in the street. After learning the man was homeless, Caleb was inspired to help.

“Everybody just assumes, ‘Oh, they’re homeless because they made bad choices.’ It’s not that way for everyone. A lot of people have stories that are really, really sad.”

And as he’s heard these stories over the years, Caleb has learned that “they’re just like us.”

He counts the kids at Genesis House II among his friends. But he’s also become someone the kids look up to, Woods-Mathis said.

“They say, ‘When we get out of here, we’re going to give back,’ ” Woods-Mathis said.

That’s exactly what Caleb hopes to inspire.

“I just think that I can set an example for other people so when I’m doing this they can see it and they can go out in their community and it can spread.”

His younger brother Noah Kennedy, 8, is already picking up the torch. Game night actually evolved because Noah had decided he wanted to get involved. Playing games is his favorite activity.

Caleb has also inspired adults like Pete Hayek of Northville, a regular game night participant. He said so often, people wait until they’re older and established to do the kind of work Caleb is doing.

“He’s challenging a lot of us who may have been sitting on the sidelines,” Hayek said.

Caleb won’t be giving up his mission any time soon. He’s involved in many other activities, like wrestling, soccer, hanging out with his friends and playing video games. But volunteering and helping homeless and less fortunate people will always be important, he said.

“I want to continue this until I’m really old,” Caleb said.

Contact Lori Higgins: 313-222-6651, lhiggins@freepress.com or @LoriAHiggins